Sometimes, good things have to come to an end. It is beyond our control as human beings. Relationships at times won’t last forever ,as at times we think they will. When you meet someone for the first time and you feel those butterflies in your stomach, you tend to think that they are ‘the one’,or they are your soulmate. Fast forward to a few months later, you come to find out that this person probably isn’t as you thought they were. Or maybe you find out that you’re not as compatible. Psychologists say that when in a relationship, one can hide their true self for a maximum of 5 months, which people call the ‘honeymoon phase ‘ of a relationship. This point is where most relationships get quite rocky.
You feel like the person has become a complete stranger to you and you don’t know what to do anymore. Things at times get so heated that you decide to end it all. It is OK to feel tired or hurt or disappointed, it’s human. But what isn’t right is forcing yourself onto someone who doesn’t want you anymore or you’re not compatible with.
I am a firm believer in the saying that ‘if they love you, they will come back ‘so if it was meant to be, it will be, no need to force things. It will end up hurting all involved. Let go, for maybe it might mean there’s something better for you. Love yourself first, and let love find you.